In a country badly governed, wealth is something to be ashamed of. Confucius Hästi valitsetud riigis on vaesus see mida häbeneda. Halvasti valitsetud riigis on rikkus see mida häbeneda. Poverty is the worst form of violence. -Mahatma Gandhi Vaesus on kõige hullem vägivalla vorm We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty. - Ema Teresa Me mõnikord arvame, et vaesus on vaid nälg, alasti olek ja kodutus. Suurim vaesus on olla soovimatu, armastuseta ja hoolitsuseta. Me peame alustama oma kodust, et sellist vaesust leevendada. Lapsesuu ei valeta Esimene ja teine Eesti (ERR 2002) On suur vahe, kas oled vaene või rikas. Vaestel ei ole mitte midagi, rikkad jälle arvavad, et
assumes that his parents know the truth about him, and that he de- serves it. He begins to feel that he is not valuable or lovable. He is not worth very much. He must therefore be worthless. Almost all personality problems in adolescence and adult- hood are rooted in what psychologists refer to as love withheld. The child needs love like roses need rain. When children feel unloved, they feel unsafe and insecure. They think, “I’m not good enough.” They begin to engage in compensatory behaviors to make up for this inner anxiety. This sense of love deprivation is manifested in misbehavior, personality problems, bursts of anger, ccc_tracy_1_1-17.qxd 6/23/03 2:46 PM Page 4 4 ➤ CHANGE YOUR THINKING, CHANGE YOUR LIFE depression, hopelessness, lack of ambition, and problems with