” ■ CONDITIONAL LOVE As an adult, a child raised with what is called “conditional love” (as opposed to unconditional love, the greatest gift one person can give to another) becomes hypersensitive to the opinions of others. In its extreme form, he cannot do anything if there is the slightest chance that someone else may not approve. He projects his childhood rela- tionship with his parents onto the important people in his adult life—spouse, boss, relatives, friends, authority figures—and tries desperately to earn their approval, or at least not lose it. The fears of failure and rejection, caused by destructive criti- cism in early childhood, are the root causes of most of our unhap- piness and anxiety as adults. We feel, “I can’t!” or “I have to!” continually
Using this profile, assessors were able to same steaks did not produce clear differences provide data that classified meat particle size in acceptability, indicating that the market into large, intermediate, and small sizes. Size for these products was probably segmented. (rather than shape of chewed particles) after This question of market segmentation had a set number of chews showed a close rela- previously been investigated by Nute et al. tionship between processing and raw mate- (1988) in a study of eight formulations of rial variations. It was found that steaks made restructured steaks varying in salt, fat, temper, from large meat particles were rated as and blend time using a half replicate of a 24 having more gristle than either the intermedi- fractional design. ate or small particles. Steaks were made according to the process