The two- hour phone call that followed was a master's degree in all things sexual, but the most actionable highlights related to (1) the single most important precondition for female orgasm and (2) technical modifications of positions. THE PRECONDITION: WOMEN NEED TO STEP UP TO THE STARTING LINE FIRST "No man can give you an orgasm. He can only help you do it yourself." This is why I used the word facilitate earlier. First and foremost, Nina emphasized, a woman has to be comfortable masturbating. "If she doesn't masturbate regularly, she'll be more trouble, baggage-wise, than it's worth, unless you get o on being the xer. She has to at least come up to the starting line and be comfortable conversing with her own orgasmic potential." For years, Nina herself was too embarrassed to show her "O face"--her face during orgasm--to partners, thinking it was ugly or unattractive, not realizing that men go nuts for it. "The woman needs to know how beautiful and exciting she is in that state."
He hovered there, teeth gritted, his back bowed as if the bed was on fire beneath him. Then he collapsed, the mattress jolting as he bounced off of it. "Gideon." I reached for the bedside lamp, my throat burning. I couldn't reach it, had to throw the tangled blankets off to get closer. Gideon was writhing in agony, thrashing so violently he shook the bed. The room lit up in a sudden flare of illumination. I turned toward him... And found him masturbating with shocking viciousness. His right hand gripped his cock with white knuckled force, pumping brutally fast. His left hand clenched the fitted sheet. Torment and pain twisted his beautiful face. Fearing for his safety, I shoved his shoulder with both hands. "Gideon, goddamn it. Wake up! " My scream broke through the nightmare. His eyes flew open and he jerked upright, his eyes darting frantically. "What?" he gasped, his chest heaving