And there was the anguish again, surfacing as he confirmed my fear. "That's exactly why you're wrong, though," he began to explain, but then his eyes narrowed. "What do you mean, 'the obvious'?" "Well, look at me," I said, unnecessarily as he was already staring. "I'm absolutely ordinary -- well, except for bad things like all the near-death experiences and being so clumsy that I'm almost disabled. And look at you." I waved my hand toward him and all his bewildering perfection. His brow creased angrily for a moment, then smoothed as his eyes took on a knowing look. "You don't see yourself very clearly, you know. I'll admit you're dead-on about the bad things," he chuckled blackly, "but you didn't hear what every human male in this school was thinking on your first day." I blinked, astonished. "I don't believe it..." I mumbled to myself. "Trust me just this once -- you are the opposite of ordinary."
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putting them down as teacher's pets or even resorting to violence against them in the school yard. The successful students,Jor their part, often hold the unsuccessful children in contempt, calling them "dumb" or "stupid." (Aronson, 1975, pp. 44, 47) Should we wonder, then, why strict school desegregation-whether by en- forced busing, district rezoning, or school closures-so frequently produces in- creased rather than decreased prejudice? When our children find their pleasant social and friendship contacts within their ethnic boundaries and get repeated ex- posure to other groups only in the competitive cauldron of the classroom, we might expect as much. Are there available solutions to this problem? One possibility might be to end our attempts at school integration, but that hardly seems workable. Even if we
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