The 4-Hour Body - An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman - Timothy Ferriss
head, using overlapping hands as indicated. Let her dictate the pressure. Most women, in my
experience, find the strongest possible pressure the most pleasurable for ending a session.
I initially thought this closing portion was a waste of time. "Grounding"? It sounded like a
bunch of New Age nonsense.
Now I believe that grounding is important not as some type of energetic witchcraft, but rather
for closure. It consummates a complete experience with beginning (setup), middle (stroking),
and end (grounding). This format gives both parties a sense of accomplishment that artfully
helps avoid xation on a full-blown orgasm as closure. Remember that it's the goalless nature of
the practice that allows the relaxation that produces the orgasm. This guaranteed outcome
the practice that allows the relaxation that produces the orgasm. This guaranteed outcome
(grounding) is smart and--I now believe--critical to include.