circumstance asjaolud, tingimused tidy murky tume, pime, sünge, pilvine resentful haavunud, solvunud, tige amicable rahumeelne, sõbralik recipient raha/hoiuse saaja, vastuvõtja promptly kiiresti, otsekohe, viivitamata specified täpselt määratletud, piiritletud, täpselt kehtestatud, ette antud latter viimane thorny okkaline Lk 26 determing kindlaksmäärama among keskel, vahel, hulgas, seas moocher depriving ilma jätma, ära võtma govern valitsema, juhtima dispute vaidlema, väitlema, diskuteerima drafting dokumendi koostamine, vormistamine long-term pikaajaline disable õigusvõimetuks tunnistama benefit kasu, tulu, kasu saama Lk 27 broaden laiendama, avardma, laienema resent pahaks panema acquiescent leplik resentment kibestumine, vimm, käegalöömine fade hajuma, tuhmuma, kahanema
tage from the reciprocity rule and, consequently, they make sure their members are trained to comply with and believe in it. Each of us has been taught to live up to the rule, and each of us knows the social sanctions and derision applied to anyone who violates it. Because there is a general distaste for those who take and make no effort to give in return, we will often go to great lengths to avoid being considered a moocher, ingrate, or freeloader. It is to those lengths that we will often be taken and, in the process, be "taken" by individuals who stand to gain from our indebtedness. To understand how the rule of reciprocation can be exploited by one who rec- ognizes it as the weapon of influence it certainly is, we might closely examine an experiment conducted by psychologist Dennis Regan (1971). A subject who partici-